Comments on: And Speaking of Love… http://blog.chewxy.com/2008/07/26/and-speaking-of-love/ 42 Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:19:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Chewxy http://blog.chewxy.com/2008/07/26/and-speaking-of-love/#comment-83654 Chewxy Thu, 31 Jul 2008 23:11:15 +0000 http://blog.chewxy.com/?p=674#comment-83654 cfgt: could be. Or you could find a girl with a secret like Haruka. (If you DO find someone like Haruka, I want in too... her house is maaaaaadness, and I could always do with some extra money - which I'm sure she wouldn't mind donating to me) Yh: I have no idea what you're talking about cfgt: could be. Or you could find a girl with a secret like Haruka. (If you DO find someone like Haruka, I want in too… her house is maaaaaadness, and I could always do with some extra money - which I’m sure she wouldn’t mind donating to me)

Yh: I have no idea what you’re talking about

]]> By: yuhhui http://blog.chewxy.com/2008/07/26/and-speaking-of-love/#comment-83640 yuhhui Thu, 31 Jul 2008 17:36:16 +0000 http://blog.chewxy.com/?p=674#comment-83640 Love is not just about feelings. It involves commitment, friends, family.. etc. Love is not just about feelings. It involves commitment, friends, family.. etc.

]]> By: cfgt http://blog.chewxy.com/2008/07/26/and-speaking-of-love/#comment-83634 cfgt Thu, 31 Jul 2008 14:10:13 +0000 http://blog.chewxy.com/?p=674#comment-83634 What? Are you suggesting I'm as ignorant as Hikari? What? Are you suggesting I’m as ignorant as Hikari?

]]> By: Chewxy http://blog.chewxy.com/2008/07/26/and-speaking-of-love/#comment-83528 Chewxy Tue, 29 Jul 2008 06:05:44 +0000 http://blog.chewxy.com/?p=674#comment-83528 Hasn't been kind to you? You gotta be blind. Hasn’t been kind to you? You gotta be blind.

]]> By: Xingyi http://blog.chewxy.com/2008/07/26/and-speaking-of-love/#comment-83487 Xingyi Mon, 28 Jul 2008 13:33:45 +0000 http://blog.chewxy.com/?p=674#comment-83487 Love has not been kind to me, so I avoid discussing it. But I'd definitely want the other person to love me more. Love has not been kind to me, so I avoid discussing it. But I’d definitely want the other person to love me more.

]]> By: Chewxy http://blog.chewxy.com/2008/07/26/and-speaking-of-love/#comment-83486 Chewxy Mon, 28 Jul 2008 12:45:42 +0000 http://blog.chewxy.com/?p=674#comment-83486 drinkingcocoa: reminds me of a question the other Xy asked me - if I like being in love, or like the feeling of being in love... cfgt: watch more Special A! drinkingcocoa: reminds me of a question the other Xy asked me - if I like being in love, or like the feeling of being in love…

cfgt: watch more Special A!

]]> By: cfgt http://blog.chewxy.com/2008/07/26/and-speaking-of-love/#comment-83463 cfgt Mon, 28 Jul 2008 05:34:25 +0000 http://blog.chewxy.com/?p=674#comment-83463 This concept of love is something I won't understand for a loooooong time. This concept of love is something I won’t understand for a loooooong time.

]]> By: drinkingcocoa http://blog.chewxy.com/2008/07/26/and-speaking-of-love/#comment-83441 drinkingcocoa Sun, 27 Jul 2008 22:56:11 +0000 http://blog.chewxy.com/?p=674#comment-83441 it's not about loving the feeling of being in love. love is a commitment and if you're not ready for it, don't even think about starting it. you need to be ready for the problems arising from this period of finding out the other's character in a deeper way. you may come to realise that you might not know the person that well after all. take the time to discover who that person really is and are you ready to accept all the imperfections, the flaws. if you are, then take a step foward. if you aren't don't step anywhere. it’s not about loving the feeling of being in love. love is a commitment and if you’re not ready for it, don’t even think about starting it. you need to be ready for the problems arising from this period of finding out the other’s character in a deeper way. you may come to realise that you might not know the person that well after all. take the time to discover who that person really is and are you ready to accept all the imperfections, the flaws. if you are, then take a step foward. if you aren’t don’t step anywhere.

]]> By: Tubby http://blog.chewxy.com/2008/07/26/and-speaking-of-love/#comment-83321 Tubby Sat, 26 Jul 2008 03:43:29 +0000 http://blog.chewxy.com/?p=674#comment-83321 By the way, the rationale that a person will not take the other party for granted if he/she loved the other party more, doesn't cancel out the other party (who is assumed to love you less) taking you for granted (it's just that the roles have been reversed right?). I think whether you love the other party more, or vice versa, the problem of taking things for granted may still exist, even in relationships where both parties may love each other highly and equally. Why? Because of familiarity and predictability in the relationship over time (which, coincidentally, will be the topic of my next blog entry). This creates a rut and erodes the parties' "passionate love" (which is one of the love types that we twin-hearted humans have - although I'm not sure about Chewxy, because his system is far more complex and superior). | Tubby | By the way, the rationale that a person will not take the other party for granted if he/she loved the other party more, doesn’t cancel out the other party (who is assumed to love you less) taking you for granted (it’s just that the roles have been reversed right?).

I think whether you love the other party more, or vice versa, the problem of taking things for granted may still exist, even in relationships where both parties may love each other highly and equally. Why? Because of familiarity and predictability in the relationship over time (which, coincidentally, will be the topic of my next blog entry). This creates a rut and erodes the parties’ “passionate love” (which is one of the love types that we twin-hearted humans have - although I’m not sure about Chewxy, because his system is far more complex and superior).

| Tubby |

]]> By: Tubby http://blog.chewxy.com/2008/07/26/and-speaking-of-love/#comment-83319 Tubby Sat, 26 Jul 2008 03:11:36 +0000 http://blog.chewxy.com/?p=674#comment-83319 We should have more of these "Staying up till 4am" sessions and talk about random stuff :) We should have more of these “Staying up till 4am” sessions and talk about random stuff :)

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